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Ask an Expert With Shawn P. Griffin

Raw, no‑BS conversation with Sean P. Griffin, board‑certified intimacy educator, about shame, toys, and why pleasure isn’t a moral grade. Sean breaks down the biggest lies men believe about size, performance, and anal play and shows how tools like the Bussy Builder can actually heal, train, and unlock new levels of pleasure.

Wil MobileWilliam J FerrellonMay 25, 2026

Raw, no‑BS conversation with Sean P. Griffin, board‑certified intimacy educator, about shame, toys, and why pleasure isn’t a moral grade. Sean breaks down the biggest lies men believe about size, performance, and anal play and shows how tools like the Bussy Builder can actually heal, train, and unlock new levels of pleasure.

Watch for: myth‑busting on shame, practical tips for introducing toys with partners, and a step‑by‑step look at anal training for prostate owners.

Tags: sex education; intimacy coach; prostate play; anal training; masturbation; sexual wellness; BussyBuilder; sex toys; shame; men’s mental health